Things To Do Together With The One You Love

This list is the sort of thing you would want to have before your partner dies.

I, thankfully, had made this list while Rob was still living. Mind you, we did only three or four of the things on the list -- but I wrote it with him in mind. And then when I found it tucked in an old journal after his death, it was a secret little gift of a memory.

So, thank you to whoever helped me find my old list.

And here's a copy for you. Maybe you have one tucked somewhere, too. Or maybe you can make a list of the things that you did do together, or maybe you can make a list of the things you wished you had done together. That would be a healing gift to yourself right now.

Blessings and Peace to you, Reader.

And now here is my list:

Things To Do (or Wish You'd Done, or You Had Done) With The One You Love

 1.  feed the ducks at the park (but don't bring bread 'cuz that makes the ducks sick)

 2.  make a picnic lunch and explore a beautiful place we've never been and eat our lunch there

 3.  go hiking

 4.  go on a scavenger hunt

 5.  go fishing under a covered bridge

 6.  plant a garden

 7.  write a story about ourselves

 8.  jump in a river together

 9.  go to the coast and eat clam chowder

10. go dance in the fields and pick wildflowers

11.  pick somewhere and plant wildflowers

12.  go visit botanical gardens

13.  go to the zoo

14.  go camping

15.  leave notes in fun places

16.  build a collage together